This week important decisions (or impulses) will be made
You are trying to get started back after Thanksgiving and your energy is low. You're reading blogs. You are like many others who are beginning now to think about plans for Christmas. What you will purchase? How you will afford it? If you are like me, you are considering how you will run counter to the culture of consumerism and ad-driven buying and find alternatives to the "traditional" way of overextending at Christmas by buying and giving and getting too much. So this week is an important week for many individuals and families making decisions about what to do at Christmas. Some will not decide but impluse what they will do. They will buy on credit cards and take the hit in 2007. So decisions made this week will impact debt spending for 2007.
I want to run another version of a list I posted last week. I passed this one out at Garnett yesterday after preaching about the day I began learning the teaching of our Lord that "it's more blessed to give than to receive." That saying of Jesus is not found in the Gospels. Luke said Paul said Jesus said this in Acts 20:35, but it's more than a Christmas saying. It was a way that Paul was summarizing Jesus' teaching in his farewell to the Ephesian church leaders.
May your week go well. This is a great week to plan, talk through with family members alternatives and new traditions, how you will stay out of debt, how you will say no to impulses and ads for things we don't need, how we can begin Advent with right minds and hearts. At dinner Monday we wrote down the things we want to do for others this Christmas, and we'll fit that into our 12 Days of Christmas tradition (see last item on the list below).
12 Christmas Alternatives I adapted this from Alternatives for Simple Living
1. Plan ahead. Instead of going on auto-pilot the day after Thanksgiving, plan individually what you want to do during holidays, or hold a family meeting to decide what the group really wants to do and who's going to do what.
2. If you need a symbol for giving (in addition to Jesus, Wise Men), learn about St. Nicholas, a good story.
3. Avoid debt. Refuse to be pressured by advertising to overspend.
4. Draw names rather than everyone giving something to everyone else in your giving circle. Set a ceiling for each recipient. Give children something they really want, rather than so many gifts.
5. Give appropriate gifts. Get to know the recipient. Give what they want to receive, not what you want to buy.
6. Give alternative gifts. Tithe what you spent on Christmas last year to a charity. Buy crafts and clothing from developing countries at alternative gift markets, not from commercial importers, so that the artisans receive a fair price for their work. Give of yourself, not just "stuff" - a coupon book for future services (such as baby-sitting or an "enchanted evening"); something baked, sewn, handmade, composed, etc.; or a family service project, such as working together at a soup kitchen.
7. Celebrate Advent for four weeks before Christmas (see www.wineskins.org for resources). Light advent candles on each Sunday before Christmas. Accompany with carols, poems, and stories.
8. Make changes slowly but persistently over several years. Don't try to change everything and everybody all at once.
9. Visits. During supper on some particular day during the holiday season (such as Christmas Eve) think about older people who have no family around—they might be a little happier at just the sight of us. (And at this point we often can't stand the sight of each other.) Let the dishes go, wrap up a few cookies and go!
10. Send New Year's letters (instead of holiday cards). Relax. You don’t have to do this in December! Write out-of-town friends in the New Year.
11. Family worship. Write out songs, scripture, skits, and poems for the holiday season on 25 pieces of paper. Each day, beginning December 1, a member of the family draws a slip from a bowl and reads it as a reminder of the forthcoming holiday.
12. Twelve Days of Christmas. In order not to swamp children with gifts all at once, use the custom of one person receiving one gift on each of the 12 days before Christmas. You can also choose some of those days to serve others or give gifts to neighbors or those in need. Build in ceremony with lighting of 12 candles or another tradition. Plan alternate activities for Christmas Day so that the center of the day is not gift-giving. (A skit, hike, visiting friends, having friends in, cooking.)